Fact is you want more than you can eat. You want to be ‘bigger’, ‘better’ more successful than the next man. You want to be first, not last. You want to be revered, remembered, your name to remain here long after your death. At best you want 'to be the 'best' version of yourself' and so you're still competing with your self without wanting to know 'self'! Now ask yourself why? Don’t settle until you are sure.
Then ask again. Then one more time.
Repeat this exercise: 3 repetitions in one set